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Our Take on the Documentary: Unknown Number: The High School Catfish

🎙️ Episode 240: Unknown Number — The High School Catfish

Description:
In this episode, Tracy and Cathrine dive into the shocking true story behind Netflix’s Unknown Number: The High School Catfish. It’s the kind of story that makes you say, “Wait… WHAT?!” — a case so twisted and heartbreaking it feels like fiction. But it’s all real.

We’ll unpack the wildest details, share what surprised us most, and talk about what this story reveals about human nature, deception, and spiritual alertness. Spoiler alert: it’s not just about a catfish — it’s about what happens when darkness disguises itself in plain sight.

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🕵️‍♀️ Episode Highlights

• Summary of the Documentary:
  A small-town Michigan story that spiraled from anonymous bullying texts into one of the most bizarre catfishing cases ever — and the truth no one saw coming.

• Most Shocking Moments:

  • The “outsider mom” who struggled to fit in.

  • The overcompensation — volunteering, coaching, inserting herself deeply in school life.

  • Her close, almost second-mom relationship with her daughter’s boyfriend, Owen.

  • The staggering discovery that the tormenter was inside the house all along.

• The Investigation Unfolds:

  • A few key people — including Kloe’s family — grew suspicious early on.

  • Kendra constantly on her phone, juggling two devices.

  • The doc leaves out some local efforts to expose the bully before law enforcement cracked the case.

• The Aftermath:

  • Lauryn reportedly grew suspicious of her own mom before the truth came out.

  • Despite it all, Lauryn and Kendra have maintained some form of relationship.

  • Kendra didn’t serve her full sentence — released August 2024, now on supervised release until February 2027.

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✝️ Scripture of the Episode

“Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” — 1 Peter 5:8 (NIV)

This verse reminds us that deception rarely shows up wearing horns — it usually comes disguised as something trustworthy, familiar, or even well-intentioned.

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💡 Takeaway

Stay alert — not anxious, but aware. Evil operates quietly when we stop paying attention.
God calls us to live with discernment, grounded in His Word, anchored in truth, and guided by love.

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🙌 Call to Action

This week, let’s live out 1 Peter 5:8.

• Ask God to help you stay spiritually alert.

• Pay attention to the small “red flags” He puts in your path.

• And share this episode with a friend who loves a good true story with a deeper meaning.

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🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you tune in.
👉 Connect with us: tracy@tracydegraaf.com
💬 Tell us: Have you ever been catfished — online or emotionally? We’d love to hear your story!

Episode 239-Revival After Charlie Kirk's Martyrdom

Episode 238-Remembering Charlie Kirk

Episode 237-Brian Health: Laugh, Learn & Remember Where You Left Your Keys

🎙️ Episode 237 Show Notes

Brain Health: Laugh, Learn & Remember Where You Left Your Keys

Ever walked into a room and completely forgotten why you’re there? Or spent 10 minutes looking for your glasses… while they were on your head? Yep, us too. 😂

In this episode, we dive into the fascinating (and funny) world of brain health for women over 50. The good news? God designed our brains to be renewed—and there are practical things we can do to keep them strong, sharp, and full of joy.

Join us in the podlab as we talk about:
✅ Why stress shrinks your memory (and how laughter heals it)
✅ How sleep is like your brain’s nightly housekeeping crew
✅ Everyday habits that literally grow new brain cells
✅ 10 surprising brain health facts you probably didn’t know
✅ And of course… our own hilarious “brain fog” stories that will make you feel a whole lot better about your zipper, your keys, and your fridge.

💡 Scripture of the Episode: Romans 12:2 — “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

🎧 Whether you’re looking for tips to improve memory, lower stress, or just laugh your way through menopause brain, this episode is for you.

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✨ Episode Takeaways

1. Stress can shrink your memory, but laughter, prayer, and gratitude help protect it.

2. Sleep is your brain’s fuel—skip it and you skip the cleanup your brain desperately needs.

3. Healthy habits like movement, diet, learning, hydration and connection can keep your brain sharper at any age.

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🙌 Call to Action

This week, pick one brain-healthy habit to focus on—better sleep, less stress, or a fun new brain challenge. Then share your funniest “brain fog” moment with us! We’d love to laugh with you and maybe share it on the next episode. Email your comments to tracy@tracydegraaf.com

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Episode 236-A Look Into The Amish Culture

🎧 Episode 236: A Look into the Amish Culture

First of all....A GIANT thank you to our friend and Humor Contributor Karren who suggested we take a look at today's topic. We ❤️ your suggestions, so if you're reading this...and I think you are...send your ideas to Tracy@tracydegraaf.com. What documentary have you watched lately that made you go Hmmmmm? What hot topic would you like to hear us discuss? We want to know. 

 

Now, back to the episode...

What's up with the Amish? 😱 And what can their way of life teach us about our own walk with Christ? In this episode, we take a closer look at the Amish culture — their faith, their separation from the world, and how we should or more importantly shouldn't think about such groups.

We’ll explore:

1. Who Are the Amish?

• Origins: breakaway from Mennonites in the 1600s.
• Core values: simplicity, humility, obedience, community.
• Separation from “the world” (why no cars, electricity, etc.).

3. Review of several documentaries about the Amish

• Affirmation of Jesus as Savior, Son of God, crucified and risen.
• Faith tied to obedience and daily living, not just personal conversion.
• Community over individualism.
• Nonresistance and taking the Sermon on the Mount literally.
• Baptism as an adult decision to follow Christ.

4. Our own experiences with Amish

• Cathrine's time working at the Fishermans Wife and in Michigan
• Me - I’ve been to an Amish restaurant and furniture store

5. Fun Facts: How Amish Are YOU quiz. 

📖 Scripture of the Episode:
Romans 12:2 (NIV) — “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”

✅ Takeaway: The Amish challenge us to reflect on how we live out our faith in today’s world.

🎯 Call to Action: Don’t jump to judgment with other religions because we all fall short. Instead, let’s approach others with humility and grace.

Episode 235-Fit For TV-THe Biggest Loser True Story Revealed

Note: Tracy has two upcoming church comedy events in the Chicago Area: Sept 20 in Monee, IL and Sept 26 in Orland Hills, IL. Grab your tickets now and come say Hi. ;) If you would like to invite Tracy and Cathrine to your church, email tracy@tracydegraaf.com. Now, back to the show...

Reality TV isn’t reality—and The Biggest Loser proves it. Join Tracy and Cathrine as they recap the three-part documentary Fit for TV: The Reality of The Biggest Loser. From crawling over the finish line to doughnut-on-the-floor challenges, they discuss the outrageous moments, the emotional cost of extreme weight loss, and how humor helps us survive the absurdity.

Plus, personal stories from both hosts about lifelong weight struggles, the emotional marination behind excess weight, and the lessons God teaches us about grace, perspective, and resilience.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How reality shows manipulate drama and entertainment over genuine health.
• Why emotional health is crucial in any weight journey.
• How humor and faith help us process life’s absurdities and setbacks.

Spiritual Inspiration: 1 Samuel 16:7 – God sees the heart, not the scale.

Listener Challenge: Laugh at something absurd in your week, reflect on your “reality vs. reality TV” moments, and take one healthy step toward emotional or physical well-being.

THANK YOU to all Humor Contributors who allow this podcast to exist. If you would like to crossover from Humor Consumer to Humor Contributor....it's just $5 per month to bring a little more laughter into the world. Go here to sponsor the show. 

Episode 234-Mood & Music

🎙 Episode 234: Mood Music – How to Let Songs Shape Your Day

Is it possible to choose your mood by choosing your music? 🤗 Absolutely. In this episode, Tracy and Cathrine dive into the power of music to shift your emotions, calm your mind, energize your body, and even deepen your connection with God. 🎶

We’ll share:

• How we personally use music for everything from workouts to worship to road trips.

• Cathrine shares a touching story about how music ministered to her and her mom in mom's final moments.

• Tracy shares how music helps her connect with God and how it helped during a season of grief

💡 3 Big Takeaways:

1. Music can calm your heart and mind — powerful for stress, anxiety, or grief.

2. Music can energize and sharpen your focus — perfect for work, driving, or workouts.

3. Music can carry you through emotions into worship and prayer — connecting your heart to God.

📚 Science Spotlight:
Did you know there’s a song called Weightless by Marconi Union that was scientifically designed with sound therapists to slow your heart rate, lower blood pressure, and reduce cortisol (your stress hormone)? In tests, it lowered stress by up to 65% — more than most people get from tea or a bubble bath.

📖 Scripture of the Episode:
"Sing to the Lord with grateful praise; make music to our God on the harp." — Psalm 147:7 (NIV)

Music is more than entertainment. It’s God’s idea—woven into the Bible over 800 times—and it can be a way to pray, to give thanks, and to steady your heart in every season.

🎵 Featured Song Recommendation:
Red Sea Road by Ellie Holcomb – a reminder that God makes a way when there seems to be no way.

✅ Listener Challenge:
Today, use music intentionally—whether to lift your mood, calm your heart, or focus your mind. Play it while you walk, pray, clean, or work. Then tell us how it impacted your day!

Episode 233-Laughing Through The Storms

🎙️ Episode 233: Laughing Through the Storms

Is it really possible to laugh when your life is chaos and your zipper’s down in public?
(Spoiler: Yes. Yes, it is. 😂)

This week, we dive into how humor builds real resilience when life feels like a hurricane (and maybe your pants are part of the problem).

Stick with us until the very end—you’ll hear:

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😹 Cat’s LOL Moments in the Middle of Mayhem

• When her STRESS was interrupted by something unexpected and hysterical

• The day the dog ran onto the school bus 🚍🐕

• Why living next door to the Fraziers was a comedy goldmine

😂 Tracy’s Tales from the Trenches

• How her mom made her laugh while yelling at her through a “toothless” grin 🦷🙃

• A “REAL mom moment” that was… VERY EXCITING

• The time her audience was laughing for all the wrong reasons 👖😳

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💬 Listener Shoutout:
Jessica writes:

“You don’t know me but I love your podcast! You two are encouraging, witty, and crack me up. You help me stress less, keep my faith strong, and find humor every day. Sometimes I laugh out loud with earbuds in—and yes, people stare, but it’s worth it!”

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💡 Spiritual Inspiration

📖 James 1:2-4 — “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds…”

• Joy is a choice, not a circumstance.

• Trials refine us. Laughter is a way of choosing joy despite pain.

📖 Philippians 4:11-13 — “…I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances…”

• Paul was beaten, imprisoned, and still rejoiced.

• Joy + laughter = spiritual strength.

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✅ Call to Action

This week, choose joy on purpose:

• 📓 Keep a Joy Journal of moments that make you smile.

• 👯‍♀️ Surround yourself with encouraging, funny believers.

• 🙏 Pray not just for deliverance, but for a light heart.

• And when life gets chaotic, say: “This is very exciting!” (Then laugh anyway.)

Tag us when you do—we’ll be laughing with you.

Episode 232: Stupid Criminals Dumb and Dumber

Episode 232 : Dumb and Dumber

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Episode Description:
Some criminals are dangerous… others are just dangerously dumb. 🕵️‍♂️💡

In this laugh-out-loud episode, we dive into the ridiculous world of stupid criminals—the ones who got caught because they:

• Forgot to cut eye holes in their disguise 😵

• Used their own pay stub as a robbery note 💰

• Called 911 to complain about the quality of their drugs 🚔

From selfie-snapping burglars to “masterminds” who ran straight into a police station, these stories prove that while crime doesn’t pay, it sure can be entertaining.

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What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• “What Were They Thinking?!” — Real-life heists gone hilariously wrong.

• Selfie Sabotage — Criminals caught by their own camera roll.

• It Gets Worse — How one bad decision snowballed into an even worse one.

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Why You’ll Love It:
If you need a good belly laugh, this episode’s got you covered. We bring the absurd, the ironic, and the “you-can’t-make-this-up” moments from the police blotter straight to your ears. Perfect for your commute, your workout, or when you just need a mood lift.

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🎧 Listen Now — and maybe lock your doors…
📩 Contact Us! If this episode made you laugh so hard you cried, please for the love of all things encouraging, contact us and let us know you're having a good time. We NEED that. You can email us at tracy@tracydegraaf.com. Love you all!!!!

Episode 231: Why In-person Connection Matters

🎙️ Episode 231: Why In-Person Connection Matters 🤝🏽💬💒

Today we're talking about the POWER of showing up—literally.
Whether it's a hug, a hospital visit, or just coffee across the table—face-to-face connection matters more than ever.

Here’s what you’ll hear:

1️⃣ The Late Dr. Charles Stanley said connection isn’t optional—it’s vital. Cathrine shares how his words shaped her view of relationships. 👨🏽‍⚕️📚

2️⃣ Tracy breaks down a powerful 2023 study showing that in-person connection boosted happiness way more than video chats or texts. Zoom has its place, but our brains want the real deal! 🧠❤️
📖 Link to study: https://doi.org/10.1038/s41598-023-34957-4

3️⃣ Intentional connection—we get real about making time:
👩🏼‍💻 Our bestie Bible study is on Zoom—but we still meet up IRL!
🎗️ Tracy’s dad showed up during cancer.
🏥 Cathrine is showing up for Emily today.
💞 Lynn got a real-life hug.
🩺 Cathrine keeps it personal with in-person doctor visits.

💡 Inspiration from Scripture:

“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together… but encouraging one another…”
— Hebrews 10:24–25 📖

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🙌 Call to Action:

Who do you need to connect with in person today?
📅 Make the plan.
🕰️ Invest the time.
💙 Connect with the Lord—and with people.

You’ll both be better for it. Laugh Anyway. 🤗😂