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Episode 249 - Contentment: Jesus is ENOUGH.

Episode 248 - The Color of Rain: How to Make Sense of Life When Life Doesn't Make Sense

🎙️ Episode 248: The Color of Rain – Making Sense of Life When Life Doesn’t Make Sense

Life doesn’t always line up neatly with our expectations. Sometimes it pours… and sometimes that rain washes in unexpected color.

🌧️ ➡️ 🌈

In this deeply moving episode, Tracy & Cathrine open the door to honest conversations about loss, hope, grief, healing, and the God who walks with us through every storm. 💛

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☔ 1. Gina & Michael’s Story — Beauty Born from Brokenness

We begin by sharing the powerful true story of Gina Kell and Michael Spehn, whose losses collided and created a new beginning.

Their journey—from unthinkable grief to unexpected hope—invites all of us to see that God can bring color even after the darkest storm. 🌦️❤️

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💔 2. Our Own Stories: When Grief Showed Up in Our Lives

Tracy & Cathrine get vulnerable as we share:

• Seasons where life made zero sense 😣

• Moments we were pretty sure God had left the chat (He hadn’t) 🙃

• How God faithfully met us—gently, quietly, and powerfully—right in the middle of our tears 💛

These real-life stories remind every listener that grief is not a sign of weakness—it’s an invitation for God to draw near.

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📖 3. What the Bible Says About Seasons of Grief and Loss — A Visit with Job

Since we’re both marinating in Job these days 🧂📘, we take a deeper dive into:

• Why Job’s suffering felt endless and confusing

• How his friends said ALL the wrong things (we all know a friend like that… 🙄)

• The emotional honesty Job brought before God

• The truth that God never abandoned him, even in silence

• The restoration God brought after the season of suffering

Job teaches us that grief is not a detour—it’s part of the human story, and God sits in the ashes with us. 🪵🔥

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✨ Scripture We Lean Into

📖 2 Corinthians 5:17 — “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”
A reminder that God is always doing something new—even when we can’t see it yet. 🌱

📖 Matthew 6:33 — “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

Our anchor in times when we don’t know which way is up. 🧭

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🌈 💛 CTA: Lean into Peace. Trust God in the Storm.

Enjoy your seasons of peace fully ☀️
And when seasons of suffering come—
trust the Lord.
He will see you through. 🙏💛🌈

Episode 247 - Digital Hygiene Protecting Yourself Online

🎙️ Episode 247: Digital Hygiene — Protecting Yourself in a Digital World

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In today’s episode, Tracy & Cathrine break down digital hygiene—what it is, why it matters, and how to avoid becoming besties with the scammers in your inbox. We’re talking malware, fake bills, AI scams, passwords, social media safety, AND the Bible. Because Jesus loves you, but those scammers do not. 🙃

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🔐 What Is Digital Hygiene? (Simple Definitions)

• Digital Hygiene: Good online habits that keep you safe.

• Malware: Bad software that harms or steals from your device.

• Ransomware: Malware that locks your stuff until you pay.

• Phishing: Fake messages pretending to be real to steal info.

• Data Breach: When your private info gets exposed or stolen.

• Antivirus: Software that finds and removes digital threats.

• Two-Step Authentication: A double lock on your accounts.

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🛡️ 1. Slow Down & Examine the Source

Scammers thrive on urgency. AI makes their messages look legit.
Look for:
✔ Weird email addresses
✔ Strange spelling
✔ Links that look “off”
✔ “Pay immediately” or “final notice” vibes

Biblical Wisdom:
“The prudent see danger and take refuge.” — Proverbs 22:3
Wisdom starts with slowing down.

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🔍 2. Don’t Trust Appearance — Test It

AI can fake voices, logos, bills… basically everything except common sense.
Before you click or pay:
✔ Verify on the official site
✔ Use phone numbers you look up yourself
✔ Compare to past statements

Biblical Wisdom:
“Test everything; hold fast to what is good.” — 1 Thess. 5:21

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🤝 3. Protect Each Other, Not Just Yourself

Scams isolate people. Community protects people.
Encourage your listeners to:
✔ Ask trusted people before paying strange bills
✔ Help older relatives with technology
✔ Share warnings about new scams

Biblical Wisdom:
“Look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.” — Phil. 2:4

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🔐 Practical Cyber Safety Habits (Non-Negotiables)

• 🔒 Use strong, unique passwords

• 🧩 Use a password manager

• 🔄 Enable automatic software updates

• 🚫 Don’t share personal info on social media (address, phone, travel plans)

• 👤 Don’t accept friend requests from strangers

• 🛑 Don’t click links from unknown senders

• 🔑 Turn on two-step authentication for everything

• 💻 Install antivirus & run regular scans

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🌱 Long-Term Benefits of Good Digital Hygiene

• Protects your identity

• Keeps your devices healthy

• Reduces your risk of scams

• Keeps your data safe

• Gives you peace of mind (and fewer panic attacks at 11pm over a sketchy email)

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📖 Spiritual Takeaway

Digital discernment matters.
Wisdom, patience, and community are God’s tools for navigating modern scams.
Protecting yourself online is another way to walk wisely.

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🎧 CTA (Call to Action)

This week’s challenge:
👉 Before clicking ANY link… stop, breathe, and verify.
Bonus points: Help someone else avoid a scam.

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Episode 246: Kitchen Remodeling Dos and Dont's

🎙️ Episode 246: Kitchen Remodeling Dos and Don’ts

👯‍♀️ Cathrine’s Pros & Cons

✅ Pros

• Stick to a budget - even if you go over by a little 🤩

• Invest in Consumer Reports (it will save you money in the long run)💰

• Do what you want 😉

❌ Cons

• Budget creep is REAL 😬

• Dust… everywhere… forever… 😵‍💫

• Decision fatigue: “Do we want matte, satin, or eggshell?” 😵

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😂 Tracy’s Pros & Cons

✅ Pros

• A kitchen that looks like grown-ups live there 🙌

• Organization heaven — A coffee bar and spices where you need them 🥲

• Corner grate thingy to dry dishrag from Amazon for my sink  😍

• Everything has its place… which means less yelling “WHO TOOK MY SPATULA?” 🍴

❌ Cons

• Budget restraints meant sacrifices 🥸

• Living without a kitchen = character development 😒

• Having to make 1,000 decisions while hungry 🍕

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🧰 Tip From Our Sponsor

“Don’t rely on the contractor just because he’s the expert.”

Just because they’ve done 100 kitchens doesn’t mean
1️⃣ They know your taste
2️⃣ They understand your workflow
3️⃣ They have to live with the results 👀

Ask questions, double-check plans, get details in writing, and don’t be afraid to speak up. 🗣️✨

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🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Do’s and Don’ts From Others

(Using the CabinetNow / ChatGPT top 10 common renovation mistakes list as inspiration)

✅ DOs

• Do set a realistic timeline — double it if you want to stay sane ⏳

• Do measure EVERYTHING twice (and then still expect something to be off) 📏

• Do prioritize storage — future you will thank you 🙏

• Do plan for outlets — your air fryer, mixer, blender, and toaster need homes ⚡

• Do think long-term — trendy today, dated tomorrow 🤷‍♀️

❌ DON’Ts

• Don’t skip the budget cushion — unexpected expenses are basically guaranteed 💸

• Don’t choose style over function — pretty means nothing if it doesn’t work 👎

• Don’t ignore lighting — kitchens need layers 💡

• Don’t cheap out on hardware — these little suckers matter 🎯

• Don’t forget the workflow — beauty + usability = kitchen bliss 😍

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📖 Scripture of the Episode

Isaiah 43:19 (NIV)
“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”

✨ A great reminder that God does renovations too — in our homes and our hearts. 🙌

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👉 CTA (Call to Action)

🎯 Have a budget before you start!
Not a “soft idea.” Not a “general number.” A real, honest, sit-down-and-do-the-math budget.
Then add 10–20% because kitchens love surprises. 😅

P.S. BONUS - Not only will you get to enjoy your kitchen today, but typically a kitchen remodel does add value to your home for resale value. You should expect to get between 50-80% of your investment back (or your kids will) Ha ha. ;0)

Episode 245:A Discussion on Don’t Date Brandon Documentary

Episode 244-Finding Strength In Weakness

🎙️ Episode 244: Finding Strength in Weakness

💡 Main Takeaways:
1️⃣ Weakness Isn’t Failure, It’s an Invitation – God doesn’t shame your struggles; He uses them to draw you closer. 🙌
2️⃣ Weakness Keeps Us Dependent on God – When life feels too heavy, it’s a reminder to lean on the One who carries it all. 🤲
3️⃣ Weakness ≠ Worthlessness – Your weakness is not your identity; it’s a doorway to God’s grace. 💗

🧭 Call to Action:
This week, notice one area of weakness — worry, patience, self-control — and instead of shame, pray:
👉 “God, show Your strength here.”
Then thank Him when you see His power at work. ✨

📖 Verse of the Week:

“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
— 2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV)

💬 Closing Thought:
When you feel weak — physically, emotionally, or spiritually — remember: that’s where God’s strength shines brightest. 💪 Life happens, but we can laugh anyway because He’s strong when we’re not. 🌤️

Episode 243: Friend or Foe? The Dangers of AI Friendships

🎙️ Episode 243: “Friend… or Foe?” The Dangers of AI Relationships
✨ If you had told us back in the 1980s that our imaginary friends would one day be in our pockets....UMMMMMMM No!

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💡 Today’s Topic: AI Friendships and Relationships — When Technology Feels a Little Too Friendly!

👩‍💻 From wearable “Friend” devices to chatbot companions, people are forming emotional bonds with artificial intelligence. But what happens when a “fake friend” starts taking the place of faith and real human connection?

In this episode, Tracy dives deep — with humor, honesty, and biblical wisdom — into the rise of AI “relationships” and what it means for our souls. Cathrine also packs a punch with plenty of wit and research!

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🧠 Key Talking Points:

1. The “Friend Necklace” Phenomenon 💬

   • Exploring AI companionship and why it’s so appealing.

   • It remembers your details, comforts you, and never argues… but is that really a friendship?

2. Job’s Story & God’s Gift of Free Will 🙏

   • Tracy reflects on how God trusted Job to choose faith — even when life hurt.

   • True love and faith can’t be programmed. God values FREE WILL, not artificial devotion.

3. The Negative Effects of AI Friendships 💔

   • Fake companionship can deepen loneliness and depression.

   • It gives the illusion of connection without the substance of relationship.

   • God designed us for real people — to sharpen, encourage, and comfort each other (Proverbs 27:17).

   • 🔹 Humor moment: “AI doesn’t judge you… but it also won't rescue you when a set of vintage lockers falls on top of you!” 😂 #true story!

4. The Dangerous Allure of “Memory” 🧠💔

   • The fact that AI remembers your details makes it feel human.

   • But it can subtly replace prayer and faith conversations.

   • Instead of turning to God for comfort, we may start turning to a machine.

   • 🔹 Humor moment: “If your prayer life sounds suspiciously like you’re talking to Alexa… it’s time to reboot your soul.” 😂

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✝️ Faith Truth:

God doesn’t just understand us...He knows us, heals us, and redeems us. 💖 He did create us afterall!

AI can simulate empathy, but only the Holy Spirit can transform a heart.

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🚀 Call to Action: “Phone a Human Friend” Challenge!

👭 Pick one of these and do it today:
📞 Call or visit a real friend.
💬 Check on someone who’s been quiet.
🙏 Pray with an actual person — no screens, no apps, just presence.
✨ Feel the joy of real connection — the way God designed it.

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💬 Closing Inspiration:

“Two are better than one… If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.”
— Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 (NIV)

🤖 AI can listen, but it can’t lift you up.
God’s design for healing is human connection — powered by love, laughter, and His presence. 💞

Episode 242-Ministry-Why It's Worth It

🎙️ Episode 242: Ministry — Why It’s Worth It!

💡 Feeling burnt out or discouraged in ministry? You’re not alone — and you’re in the right place. In this episode, we unpack why ministry is worth it even when it’s messy, exhausting, and unseen.

We just came off a 3½-day ministry retreat 🏕️ full of laughter, worship, and divine moments (plus a few hilarious behind-the-scenes stories 🤪). That time away reminded us that ministry is not just what we do — it’s who we are in Christ.

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✝️ I. Ministry = Service

Ministry means serving others out of love and obedience to Jesus. ❤️
We share stories from our retreat about using our gifts — from hospitality and encouragement to prayer and leadership — all for God’s glory. 🙌

💬 Key takeaway: Every act of service matters, whether it’s preaching, praying, or disposing of rotten veggies... God sees it all.

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😅 II. The Challenges Are Real

Let’s be honest… ministry can be messy because people are messy!
From burnout and long hours to spiritual warfare and personality clashes 😬 — the struggles are real.

But Scripture reminds us:
📖 “Love one another deeply, from the heart.” — 1 Peter 1:22

💬 Key takeaway: When ministry feels hard, love harder. That’s where Jesus shows up.

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🕊️ III. Ministry Is Worth It

Even through the challenges, the joy of seeing lives changed, hearts lifted, and the Holy Spirit move makes it all worth it. 💖

📖 “Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9
📖 “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9

💬 Key takeaway: The reward isn’t in the recognition — it’s in the transformation.

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🎯 CTA: Discover Your Spiritual Gifts

You are called. You are equipped. You are needed. 💪
Find out how God wired you to serve with a free assessment below:
👉 lifeway.com/en/articles/women-leadership-spiritual-gifts-growth-service

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💬 Listener Challenge

Ask God this week:

“Where can I serve — even in small ways — to show Your love to someone else?”
Then take action. ❤️

 

Hugs,

Tracy and Cathrine

Episode 241-Cancer Screenings Matter!

Greetings Humor Consumers!

In this powerful yet hilariously honest episode, Tracy and Cathrine dive into cancer screenings and early detection—a topic most people avoid, ignore, or delay. Tracy opens with her personal breast cancer survival story involving an oncologist, radiation, and a possible perk: a higher, tighter boob. 😂

From there, the conversation gets real about why cancer screenings matter and how early detection saves lives.

Whether you’re overdue for a mammogram, avoiding a colonoscopy out of dread, or you don’t even know what screenings you need at your age—this episode is your friendly (faith-filled) wake-up call. 💗🎀

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🔎 In This Episode:

• Tracy’s breast cancer story: raw, real, and funny

• Why staying current on cancer screenings matters

• The top cancer screenings by age (simple checklist!)

• Why people procrastinate medical tests (and how to stop)

• How caring for your health honors God

• Your challenge: schedule ONE overdue screening today!

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🩺 Cancer Screening Checklist (Quick Guide)

Cancer Type	Screening	Start Age
Breast Cancer	Mammogram	40+
Cervical Cancer	Pap + HPV	21–65
Colon Cancer	Colonoscopy or FIT	45+
Lung Cancer	Low-dose CT	50–80 (smokers/former smokers)
Prostate Cancer	PSA blood test	50 (or earlier if high risk)
Skin Cancer	Yearly dermatologist exam	All adults
Oral Cancer	Dental screening	High-risk adults
Ovarian, Pancreatic, Liver	High-risk only	Talk to your doctor
Testicular	Self-exam	Men 15–44

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✝️ Scripture in This Episode

“Your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit… honor God with your bodies.”
— 1 Corinthians 6:19–20 (NIV)

“No one hates their own body but takes care of it…”
— Ephesians 5:29 (NIV)

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🎯 Call to Action

📅 Book ONE screening today. Stop waiting for a “better time.”
Screenshot your appointment and tag us: #LaughingThroughScreenings

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🔗 Resources Mentioned

• American Cancer Society screening guidelines

• CDC early detection resources

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Our Take on the Documentary: Unknown Number: The High School Catfish

🎙️ Episode 240: Unknown Number — The High School Catfish

Description:
In this episode, Tracy and Cathrine dive into the shocking true story behind Netflix’s Unknown Number: The High School Catfish. It’s the kind of story that makes you say, “Wait… WHAT?!” — a case so twisted and heartbreaking it feels like fiction. But it’s all real.

We’ll unpack the wildest details, share what surprised us most, and talk about what this story reveals about human nature, deception, and spiritual alertness. Spoiler alert: it’s not just about a catfish — it’s about what happens when darkness disguises itself in plain sight.

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🕵️‍♀️ Episode Highlights

• Summary of the Documentary:
  A small-town Michigan story that spiraled from anonymous bullying texts into one of the most bizarre catfishing cases ever — and the truth no one saw coming.

• Most Shocking Moments:

  • The “outsider mom” who struggled to fit in.

  • The overcompensation — volunteering, coaching, inserting herself deeply in school life.

  • Her close, almost second-mom relationship with her daughter’s boyfriend, Owen.

  • The staggering discovery that the tormenter was inside the house all along.

• The Investigation Unfolds:

  • A few key people — including Kloe’s family — grew suspicious early on.

  • Kendra constantly on her phone, juggling two devices.

  • The doc leaves out some local efforts to expose the bully before law enforcement cracked the case.

• The Aftermath:

  • Lauryn reportedly grew suspicious of her own mom before the truth came out.

  • Despite it all, Lauryn and Kendra have maintained some form of relationship.

  • Kendra didn’t serve her full sentence — released August 2024, now on supervised release until February 2027.

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✝️ Scripture of the Episode

“Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” — 1 Peter 5:8 (NIV)

This verse reminds us that deception rarely shows up wearing horns — it usually comes disguised as something trustworthy, familiar, or even well-intentioned.

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💡 Takeaway

Stay alert — not anxious, but aware. Evil operates quietly when we stop paying attention.
God calls us to live with discernment, grounded in His Word, anchored in truth, and guided by love.

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🙌 Call to Action

This week, let’s live out 1 Peter 5:8.

• Ask God to help you stay spiritually alert.

• Pay attention to the small “red flags” He puts in your path.

• And share this episode with a friend who loves a good true story with a deeper meaning.

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